To toy (with men). Behaviour of young women who get a kick of using their power over men through psychological means (wilfully turning up late or not at all for dates, high demands of expensive nature, refusal to reward with intercourse…). A group of young ladies behaving in such a manner is often called Общество Динамо (Company Dynamo — in fact the name of a sport club).
Как «динамить» мужчин? То есть разводить на деньги, на материальные блага. По-крупному!
How to shake down men? That is to trick them out of money, out of material well-being. Big time!
(Рулон Холл)